Hey, nothing wrong with disagreeing on some points ... that's what opinions are all about. When I was refering to losing friends, I meant real friends, not friends as defined by the LiveJournal friends feature. LJ friends come and go. Again, some people take that extremely seriously. I do not. Just because you're on my LJ friends list does not necessarily mean I consider you a real friend (I use "you" in the generic sense of the word here).